How Applying to Graduate School Works

What follows is only one perspective on applying to graduate school. Someone else may disagree with us, and this guidance may not apply to different professors, departments, or universities, or in different fields. In other words, your mileage may vary. In general, know that this guidance is intended for people applying to cognitive psychology/neuroscience PhD programs in the United States at institutions with a strong emphasis on research. While we cannot guarantee that this guidance is correct or complete, we provide this in good faith and hope that you engage with it in the same way. Please email us any feedback, positive or negative, or suggestions for constructive improvements. We’d love to hear from you.

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Updates to this page

Aug. 18, 2022: Added a new section on what makes a good PI/lab to apply to and made edits to other, related sections to reduce overlap.

Aug. 14, 2022: Clarified information about video interviews, added content about finding PIs/labs to apply to, made significant changes to Should I contact the PI before applying? to reflect the evolving field consensus, and other minor edits.

Jan. 17, 2022: Added more information about interviews, finding PIs/labs, and suggestions about how to decide between multiple offers.

Sep. 10, 2021: Added announcement of Stony Brook University's weekly Virtual Psych Grad School Application Café to Resources.

Sep. 9, 2021: Small changes to language and page functionality.

Aug. 27, 2021: Added links in the Resources section to Harvard's PPREP program and the University of Michigan's Diversity Recruitment Weekend.

Aug. 19, 2021: Added a link in the Resources section to the program Paths to PhD, from Stanford University's Dept. of Psychology.

Aug. 13, 2021: Added a link in the Resources section to a new guide from Prof. Jamil Zaki.

Aug. 9, 2021: Initial minor updates for 2021 application season, plus addition of new sections on Finding PIs/Labs to work with and perspective on what happens if you don't receive an offer.

Nov. 24, 2020: Added in the Application Materials section a new paragraph about submission deadlines for materials submitted by the applicant and by letter writers.

Sept. 18, 2020: Added in the Resources section a new time-sensitive opportunity to learn more about graduate school options in Psychology and how to successfully apply.

Sept. 13, 2020: Added more information to the rough outline of the process, mainly about applicant-side actions like identifying references and identifying PIs/programs to apply to. Added mentions of transcripts in multiple locations. Added a note on personalizing your main application statement to the PI under Application Materials. Added a new resource from Prof. Sam Gershman about how to pick a research topic.

Sept. 8, 2020: Added two new resources: a guide from Prof. Emily Balcetis, called "How To Get In To Graduate School," and a program called Project SHORT which provides peer-to-peer mentoring support. Also added a mention of Harvard's PRO-TiP initiative.

Sept. 6, 2020: Added two new resources (a 20-page Q & A from an event called "What I wish I had known about doing a PhD"; and a link to Growing Up In Science's resource page).

The goal of a graduate application

The goal of your graduate application should be to find the best fit for you.

Graduate school is hard. In cognitive psychology, it generally takes 5 or more years. That’s a long time - so you want to try your best to find a place where you feel supported, collaborating with people with whom you work well, working on things you care about and want to work on.

PhDs in Psychology generally follow an ‘apprenticeship’ model in which you have one primary advisor (often called the PI, short for principal investigator, which is a fancy word for a professor who runs a research lab) whose lab you’re in for the duration of the program. You may collaborate with other people or rotate from one lab to another as part of your program’s normal experience, but generally speaking, you’re applying to one PI.

You are not looking for friends; don’t evaluate potential advisors or labmates first on whether you’d want to hang out. Evaluate them on what it’d be like to work with them, every day, for five years. Would they challenge you, teach you, guide you, and support you? Would your relationship with them be productive and sustainable? That doesn’t mean it’s bad if some of them are friends too! It’s really good! Being happy is unquestionably part of the equation here (and is part of a healthy, happy lab culture), but it’s not everything and it’s not primary. You’re seeking a good professional relationship, so consider it in that light.

For what it’s worth, know too that you’re looking for a lifelong professional relationship. Your advisor will hopefully be a source of support (including advice, collaboration, emotional support, etc) for a long time after you get your PhD and leave. Think of them as your academic family.

Remember that the goal is to find a program within which you will thrive.

Some perspective

Is this 100% under your control? If you do everything on this page (and all the others linked below), will you get in? Not necessarily. A lot of things have to line up for you to get into graduate school, and many of them are beyond your control. This doesn’t make the process easier for applicants, but it’s important to keep in mind. Do everything you can to control what you can control (your communication with the PI, your application itself, and your preparation for any interviews or meetings), and then try to let go of the rest! (easier said than done, we know…)

Examples of some things that have to line up…

A rough outline of the process

Applications proceed in a few steps. Some of this sort of information is often posted online somewhere (e.g. the University of Denver’s Dept. of Psychology info on the admissions process is here). The rough outline of the events and their timeline, from the perspective of the department/PI, is as follows: